I have problems expressing my feelings to girls. I have a lot of friends who are girls that i like, but I can never ask them out or flirt with them even if they’re single. I am sixteen and have never had a girlfriend. I’m a hopeless romantic looking for advice on talking to girls. Can anyone help me?
7:11 am on October 16th, 2008
1) Be patient.
2) Relax and enjoy your friendships with girls.
Eventually, one of them will start seeing you as more than a friend. At this point, DO NOT MESS IT UP! You have a chance at the perfect relationship. Don’t let passion get in the way, and don’t rush it, passion will always be there when you want it. Continue to build on the things that made you friends.
I’ve been passionately in love with my best friend for 28 years now. We’re in our 50’s, and we still crack each oterh up, we still enjoy talking until late at night/early in the morning, and we still get the hots for each other.
11:57 pm on October 19th, 2008
Dude, if you really want some help post your email address on here (or create a new one so no one can identify you) and I’ll give you some info that will help you out. I would post it on here but I don’t want just anybody to see the info.
12:59 am on October 20th, 2008
stop being a bitch and get one of them! u won’t ever have a girl being scared. they just people with vaginas
5:51 pm on October 21st, 2008
ahh… whenever i see baker’s comments i feel sick. >> but, he’s got a point, somewhat.
idk what you like etc, but i hear reading quality romance manga can get your brain working in the right direction more or less. plus, if you’re a hopeless romantic you’re bound to have an artictic bone and manga shouldn’t be a problem. =P
11:33 am on February 22nd, 2009
i have the same problem and i am 16.all my frndz have lots of gfs.but i dont bother.look the positive side of it as i do.think that u r unique and different from everyone,coz u dont have any gf.feel proud and live ur life freely n happily.after all its ur life dude,why should a girl interfere?keep urself busy all da time and dont think about it.soon u’ll b feeling like a common man
10:54 am on November 1st, 2009
Check it out..man your 16..live your life! hug all the girls you want, hang out with whoever you want! NO SESX THO! but man im 20 and i have been single all my lie! i hav come close to havn a girl,but either the parents were racist or the parent was too involved lik the daughter tellin the mom evrey thing i say, or flat out a girl playn me! the way i do now is i call it chillin..ima tlk to girls and have fun i aint tryna get serious unless i know when its the right person! all i gotta say is ur yung live life! have fun..have friends and get to know girls.good thing come to those who are patient so be patient and dont let it get to you..bc if your a good person it WILL happen its jus a matter of time and you gettn to know whats out there..take your time you dont always find gold on the first attempt
9:07 am on December 3rd, 2009
They’re not just people with vagina’s…Thats not the only difference between guys and girls, i think thats abit disrespectful, to the male/female relationship but thats my opinion anyhow.
Like the first person said, be paitent I think our society teaches us a bunch of things “we should” be doing, before doing anything make sure the feelings you have for this person, isn’t a fickle feeling, you wouldn’t want to lose a friend over feelings that aren’t strong. Like he said passion will always be there.