I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years now. I love him, he loves me, we plan to marry and have kids later on … I’m 19. I’ve never been more sure about anything as much as I am sure about how much I love him. But, here’s the thing, I still think about having sex with my ex! I know it’s wrong, but I can’t help it.
Sex with my boyfriend Blake is GREAT! But for some reason I still think about Korbin every once in a while. Oh ya, and there’s something I forgot to add, Korbin still thinks about having sex with me too. The reason I know is because we texted one night (we haven’t talked since we broke up YEARS ago) and revealed the feelings we still have for each other and discussed our current situations. I have NEVER cheated on Blake, and I don’t plan to but these uncontrollable “fantasies” are making me feel really guilty! I don’t know what to do . . .
3:37 pm on November 9th, 2009
I wouldn’t worry about it (everyone fantasizes) its completely natural. As long as you love him and he loves you and you have no doubt in your mind you want to be with him. Fantasizing about your ex may just be because deep down you know you two had fun together.
1:15 am on February 10th, 2011
hi.. i don’t think it’s wrong if you fantasize having sex with your ex…. i do too…. a lot… for me it’s okey as long as you know your limitations… that you don’t flirt with him and do the actual physical thing with him because it will be another story… you may do that but it should be just purely imagination and nothing else……
3:20 pm on July 16th, 2011
Just keep it to the imagination and not the real thing. Dont put yourself in a situation where the two of you could be alone. Also if your serious about your boyfriend and want to marry him stop communicating with this ex of yours. How would you like it if your boyfriend was texting another girl physical feelings for eachother. You wouldnt like it one bit. Mabe you need some time to just date other men before you settle down there is nothing wrong with needing more time to date other people you are young and marriage is a hug. Commitment Just dont cheat cause it will eat at your emotions and affect the way you love your current boyfriend. Plus if you ever do cheat then confess he will never be the same man with you. He will eventually gain trust but not like you have it now. I know this cause my wife did this to me when we were dating and she gave in and cheated. Trust me it will tarnish what you have.
10:30 pm on July 18th, 2011
my biggest fantasy,is to be the only man in a room full of sex crazy women…the more the merrier,20 or more of you would probably suffice, but i’ll take more, as long as they are over 18…anything goes..and i am hoping my clothes go very quickly.
they are bound to strip me,that is what i crave for the most,any resulting sex is secondary.
they could rape me if they want…
that has got to be any mans ultimate fantasy.
could it happen?..i dont think so.
that is my life long fantasy, but i had better not hold my breath, because things like this only live in fantasy…but in a perfect world…even if they killed me..what a way to go….
come on ladies,if you dare…come and get me…if you can find me….i’m yours, until you kill me with sex.
thankyou