Confession Point

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Im really lonely and want a serious relationship! I just cant seem to get any dates with girls which is really annoying. Im a good looking guy and I get with girls in clubs and stuff but whenever I get into a relationship things start going sour. I am 23 and havent had a serious relationship in my life. Every one has been random flings ranging from a week to two months of what I considered casual sex. Its really annoying because when I think I start to fall for a girl I change and close up and blank them out. I also seem to turn off when im having sex and the emotion goes away. I dont know what it is 🙁 I had an opportunity to be with a girl last year for a long time she was tall and beautiful, had a gorgeous body and we were amazing together.. at the start. We had sex and then everything changed again. I get told im very good in bed and I have an 8 inch penis and love pleasing girls I always take time to find out what a girl likes then give it to her. But when I have sex with them the chemistry in the relationship changes. When I split up with the girl I asked her why and she said we were just friends which was very wierd.. she also said I was a great lover… but didnt make love, proof that my emotions switch off when sex enters the relationship. So … dont have sex with them?

The only thing is I cant do that… Im a very horny guy and I have a huge sex drive and when Im with a girl I like and we kiss I usually get hard straight away sometimes just from cuddeling. I just want a girl to understand me but I dont even understand myself…

Its been a year now since the relationship and I have had 3 flings one with a 30 year old who I really liked and we got on great but she said we were in different places and she only really wanted me for my cock. The other two were with 2 girls who I dont even like.. I think I just wanted sex and they were easy I didnt enjoy either time and regreted doing it but they still call me n stuff but imtrying to keep away because Im sure they just want to have a quicky.

I havent been on a date in years and Im really lonely, scared to enter the whole thing again because I guess its all just going to end the same way.

I wish I was one of those guys that sticks with his girlfriend for 4 years or more. I think I have so much to offer a girl I am successful and fit, I am quite sensitive and very cheeky but it seems these days when I meet a girl I really want they just want to be friends and end up with some asshole boyfriend.

Last month my best friend of 6 years kissed me in a club, It was really strange, we hadent spoken in months and we finally talked again and ended up kissing. We went out a few times after that and I told her I liked her more than a friend.. I think I loved her but she told me she didnt fancy me. Which I found wierd seeing as she kissed me. We fell out and I havent seen her for 4 months now and I dont want to think about her anymore because it feels like she used the kiss to get back as friends again.

I feel really happy these days and smile alot and try seem open to new girls but no girls really pay attention to me in an affectionate way. I dunno why maybe they can sense the fear I have of fucking things up as usual.

I hope one day that goes away.


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  1. romanian ant
    2:20 pm on September 2nd, 2007


    There’s always your MOTHER . . .

    OR your SISTER . . .

    OR your GRANDMOTHER . . .

    OR a female COUSIN . . .

    OR your AUNT . . .


  2. wealthy banker
    2:26 pm on September 2nd, 2007

    #3166: the romanian ant is right. it might be a little too kinky, but any port in a storm, eh?

    on the other hand, maybe you’re gay?

  3. brown dildo
    6:44 am on September 5th, 2007


    Have strap-on dildo, will travel.

    Now, bend over, BITCH !!!

  4. red dog
    6:41 pm on September 10th, 2007

    #3485: if ur such a fuck up, then have THEM get on top!

  5. Brit Babe
    8:06 pm on September 18th, 2007


    Go downtown and stand on a corner where it’s very busy, like at a bus stop queue (waiting line).

    Ask the first 10 women you meet if they fancy a shag (would they like to fuck).

    9 times out of 10, the woman will scream at you and slap your face!

    BUt….. oh, that TENTH time !!!

  6. careful assface
    12:09 pm on October 1st, 2007

    #3661: how bout you brit babe

  7. No Guilt
    2:01 am on February 10th, 2009

    want to talk? you sound nice

  8. no homo
    2:22 pm on March 2nd, 2009

    epic fail.

  9. stiffy
    9:42 pm on March 12th, 2009

    your young free and single, live the good life whilst you can theres plenty of time to fall in love later !

  10. AntiLohan
    2:16 am on March 19th, 2009

    Hey you are 23 years old. Being horny and obsessed with fucking and not making love is completely and utterly normal. Women are way mature than men so you can’t psychoanalyze yourself based on that comment your ex gf gave you. (This from a woman so trust me)

    So date, have fun, fuck. The whole point in dating is too learn how to emotionally connect with people. Dating and fucking eventually equals relationship which eventually leads to making love. You don’t make love to a girl you met five minutes at the local club. I think you need to slow down and master one art before trying to Macguyver another.

  11. aa
    5:14 pm on May 25th, 2009

    yeah maybe you’re just not ready emotionally. obviously.
    were you molested as a kid?
    is your dad/mom the same way?
    or you could just have bad breath or something wack that the girls can’t see themselves in for a long time.

  12. adeline
    5:01 pm on June 7th, 2009

    anti lohan ! love you ! where can I meet you ?

    3:41 pm on June 15th, 2009

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  14. Moon Light
    11:07 pm on June 18th, 2009

    if u live in nyc

    go to tompkins square park more often. maybe one day we will meet up.

    3:50 pm on June 22nd, 2009

    sorry didnt read the full story thought you were a girl

  16. Raul
    7:31 am on May 5th, 2010

    I think your trying to be a nice guy.. Which is not your natural self..

    Most girls dont really like nice guys.. I think your very sweet and accomodating in bed. trying to be soft and gentle.. many girls dont want that.

    Doesnt mean you have to be a rough and wild if thats not natural to you. .But perhaps when they hook up wiht you, they actually want to have some rough wild sex and you end up being this soft sensitive guy they dont want on the first night…

    Keep that for later… do your stuff uninhibited in the beginning .

  17. John
    5:18 am on July 1st, 2011

    Are you looking for a relationship or just a fuck buddy? Relationships take time and effort, doing things together, sharing your interests, dreams and fears with someone else. This creates a bond between people, and people with a strong bond have fantastic sex. You might consider that fucking everyone you date is messing it up big time – no time for building a strong connection.

    Forget about finding a girlfriend, just be a good friend to the girls you meet (no fucking or sexual playing of any kind). Soon enough you will meet someone who will like you for who you are and the point is that you choose her above anyone else, marry her, take good care of her and she will take good care of you.

    Men and women will always differ but boy oh boy, if you press the right buttons for a woman she will do ANYTHING you want. Obviously if you love her you wouldn’t want to degrade or humiliate her but you get my drift.

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