I slept with my best friend’s ex-boyfriend, several times.
The first time he and I were together it was because of a threesome with me, her, and him (they were still dating). I was really drunk that night and didn’t know any better; I was kind of mad at her for letting it happen.
Later on, they broke up, and he and I began hooking up. I thought I really liked him and he liked me and we had a future, but I just found out that he was just using me to add another notch on his belt.
Oh, and they took time off for a while from sex after they broke up, but apparently they’re sleeping together again.
I’m just confused and last night I was overwhelmed with guilt. Should I tell her what happened? I just don’t want a big dramatic scene, and I’ll understand if I lose her over this, but I don’t want her to tell everyone and lose other friends as well.
Please help me, my friend is graduating in four days and I don’t want this to stain our last week together.
12:36 am on May 26th, 2010
No at this stage in the game its too late you will only be loosing her as a friend.i wouldn’t tell her but then i would try 2 make it up by being the most loyal friend ever i woulndt lie 2 her anymore and i would all ways help her when ever i can.and maybe if you keep it underwraps no 1 will ever know and it could stay in the past and be 4gotten.interesting story let me know what u decided 2 do tho
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3:22 pm on July 27th, 2010
go talk to her. Tell her what happened. How it happend. How you feel what you hope to happwnwd from there on onwards. If you hide under a rock and she finds out later just picture what may become of your relationship then.