A year ago I met this dude who kinda stole me heart away instantly. He was the perfect gentleman now that I see. He opended doors, constanlty complimented me & even asked me to marry him on several occasions. He never made me wait for anything. He said he treated me like he wished his stepdad treated his mom. But the bad gurl in me cheated & he found out. After everything came out I flipped the script. I told him he was wrong for looking in my phone which he paid the bill for. Then he started treating me different. He started making me wait for things & even yelled at me. But he kept sayin I forgive, but I knew he didn’t. A fews weeks went by & I called him & told him how much I missed him. He came over & we spoke for a while & I knew rite then & there he forgave me. 3 days laters my perfect gentleman was tragically killed. His mom really adores me & says that were each other strenghts. She says im kinda her backbone. Do you think she deserves to know the cheating me???
1:53 am on January 6th, 2009
naw there is no need to mention that, it was between you and him – it was resolved at the proper level and it is now irrelevant
1:56 am on January 10th, 2009
I agree, he forgave you, he loved you and proved it with forgiveness, even if you tell her you should wonder is it for her or you?
Honestly I wouldn’t, besides, it wouldn’t change the truth really would it? You love him and he you, telling her is indeed irrelevant.
(My Condolences by the way -HUGZ-)
8:07 pm on January 15th, 2009
My condolences first.
Second, what went on in your relationship is none of her business. If he had wanted to divulge “the cheating you” to his mom, trust me she would already know. he clearly wanted his mom to think the best of you all the time, which means that he really cared for you. So no, continue to honor your closeness with her in a time of grief and let the past be jsut that.
But don’t ever cheat on the nice guy again. They never recover from heartbreak, that’s how they go bad!!!