Facts: 23/Female 6’3″/145 Auburn hair, brown eyes, great skin, big lips, and a perfect smile.
My Reality: Everywhere I go people stop and stare, point and whisper, laugh when I walk by, smirk when I wear heels, come up to me and tell me how tall I am (like I don’t know!), basically make me feel like I should be in the circus!! Why do people do that.. make me feel ugly and insecure?? Why is being tall a bad thing?Better yet, why can’t a woman with my height where heels without everyone making me feel like I am a fucking joke??
Seriously, I just can’t wrap my head around it anymore.. and sadly, its working, keeping me staying inside day after day, avoiding big groups of people, alienating myself from those around me, wearing big baggy clothing so people cant see the real me… i wish someone could see me right now and my tears of rejection.
1:26 am on June 26th, 2009
Hello colormehigh,
I know it’s is heartbreaking when people act like idiots. But, you know, opinions are like assholes,
everybody has one. It’s when people show theirs that it becomes a problem. You are a miracle. Each person living is a miracle, a special gift to this world. They should take the time to fit in and not keep others out. We each have a special trait, a quality about us that makes us better than others. I would be proud to be seen with you. Others are jealous. They are the vertically challenged, not you. They have empty, idle minds,,not you. If you look deep inside you will agree with me.
12:54 am on June 28th, 2009
fuck them all!!im sure u r just luvly anyway!!
7:33 pm on June 28th, 2009
I’m so sorry to hear that, those people are big jerks, really!
There’s nothing wrong with being tall, which you should know.
But please, don’t alienate yourself from the others, hang out with your friends, family, everything will be fine.
kiss
6:22 am on June 29th, 2009
don’t even trip. i love taller women. my g/f’s tall and i think it is super sexy.
12:50 pm on June 30th, 2009
You’re amazing & beautiful no matter what.
Being is tall is great! It’s such a wonderful thing, so embrace it!
Don’t ever let those kinds of people get to you.
You are better than them.
3:06 pm on June 30th, 2009
Hey girl, you have got to get out there and live your life! You probably have a body other women would envy. Stop hiding from the world and STRUT YOUR STUFF! I’m not talking about wearing ultra revealing clothes and acting skanky, I’m talking about being young and having fun! Life is hard enough as it is with work, bills, families and significant others being a pain in your ass… get out there and enjoy the life you got because you only got one shot at it! People probably make stupid comments because you are tall, pretty and smart, like a Giselle Bundchen with brains! That’s a compliment! You have to get out and be confident in your body and your abilities- if I were you I’d put on a mini skirt, wear those sky high heels and let the world know I am woman hear me roar!
8:29 am on July 1st, 2009
I’m 6’4″ male, 300lbs with alopecia. As a kid I wanted to be a superhero. I had Spider-man or Superman in mind. Never thought I’d end up looking like the Kingpin.
Anyway, my stunning wife makes me feel normal. My beautiful son sees me just as his dad.
I guess what I’m saying is remember those that love you for who you are. Your parents, friends, etc. Theirs and yours are the only opinions that count.
2:34 pm on July 2nd, 2009
dont go any higher then 2.5 heels. wear heels with an ankle strap that draws the eye to the ankle and not the top of your head. wedges would be cute. fashion stylist***
9:39 pm on July 4th, 2009
Babygirl, you shouldnt look at your self as a circus freak. people laugh and point because probly everyone around you are midgets, (no offense to little people). the general public just cant accept anything that doesnt look like them. when i used to live in a different town, i used to get looks alot when i went to the movies and had some ppl leave cuz all they saw was a black man. im 24 and 6’2 frankly i love tall women and i actually would like to find one that i could oneday call my wife. dont know what it is but tall women tickles my fancy alot more than women shorter than 5’9, taller than me is even better. Ey maybe its my thing, just like some guys that like blondes, big boobs, big butts…small butts (lol), or brunettes, me i like a tall, shapely, either slender/ thick woman. WORK WHAT YOU GOT. any one laughing? remember this ask them if supermodels are short.
12:13 am on July 5th, 2009
First of all i have tall sisters and strut your stuff with pride as i am sure you do. Second. Your stats are amazing so they are just jealous. Thirdly women are not usually that tall so the stares well are normal. Fourthly if you live in MN i want to take you out for coffee-haha okay i am not a creeper. Kinda joking on the last one. Seriously though find a tall guy and it will look perfect and sexy match. Damn your most likely a model you have the figure! Be proud and don’t let the snikers get to you. Easier said then done- so good luck.
5:49 pm on July 5th, 2009
That’s A Huge Bitch!!!
9:20 pm on July 5th, 2009
YOU ARE A FREAK OF NATURE!!! UR TOOOOOOOO TALL AND THATS WHY NO ONE LIKES YOU… YOU MUST PRAISE ALLAH TO BE LIKED…
11:00 am on July 7th, 2009
I think tall women are totally amazing and sexy. I so wish I could find a tall girlfriend like you. You just need to be patient. The perfect guy or girl will find you and fall in love with you, just for who you are. Just be confident and be yourself.
However, people are always going to stare and comment as they do with anything outside the norm. Just a fact of life. Embrace it like you are an actress on a stage, every day of your life. And don’t wait around for a guy who is taller than you, as you will seriously diminish your dating chances, only 1% of guys are taller than 6’2″, so you don’t want to discard 99% of guys just because of their height. Keep an open mind and an open heart, and everything will work out great.
2:18 am on July 9th, 2009
screw the haters. don’t stay inside or you are a coward. heels are hot as hell. pimp that shit – 6 inches. hit me up if your in washington
7:37 pm on July 9th, 2009
Hey you, stop this nonsense. You are looking things the wrong way! I’m a 6 foot 7 guy, and get the same exact attention as you do. It’s not because they think you’re a freak. You ARE different, as am I. But people look at us with curiosity because we’re unique. It has nothing to do with being a freak, or being ugly or anything like that.
I guess it’s easier for me because I’m a guy. Guys have the same problem when they’re really short, but girls are almost admired for it. It’s all kind of stupid though. When it comes down to it, you are getting lots of attention from people. You just have to change your state of mind. It is something that most women don’t have, and therefore is something to be proud of. Come on! Don’t tell me when you walk into a bar or other social scene, you don’t feel superior as you walk by all these lame shorter people? Being tall is awesome! What you need is to date a football player or something, somebody taller than you, and you’ll be fine. You need to snap out of it, and transcend into the same mentality that tall wrestlers and tall models have. Which is physical superiority.
5:15 pm on July 10th, 2009
People will always stare at you. You might as well get comfortable with the idea. I don’t think it is necessarily a form of rejection. It is just that in this particular area, you are unusual. You just have to learn use this to your advantage rather than a disadvantage. If you do not accept youself just how you are, how could you expect others to accept you? Just love yourself and live your life. Many people find tall women quite physically attractive.
4:41 pm on July 22nd, 2009
The world is a very large place; where you are and the people around you are just a smidgen of that. Go enjoy the rest of the world – see how many people are “looking for you (and at you)with glee in their eyes. Those are the ones that count – not the small minded, Just glare back at them as if they were ‘too short.’ One love!
2:37 am on July 23rd, 2009
i lov tall and big women nd having with them im from dubai if ur interested visit dubai i would lov to play with u
6:58 pm on July 29th, 2009
to be honest im tall and i like tall girls people say im weird but who give a fuck ………if you feel good and u (love your self) who gives a fuck what people think
4:06 pm on July 30th, 2009
Hey Darlin’,
First of all, I am 6’4″ and I LOVE tall women! Just make sure that you walk with confidence… it’s not a bad thing that people notice you. I am sure you are dead sexy in a dress and heels. Just don’t worry about what other people are thinking or saying, because it’s just a matter of time before you run into the right person… and he will love you whether he is tall or short. Height doesn’t matter when you’re lying down…lol
7:41 am on July 31st, 2009
Look,
I’m SBM 6’5″ 250lbs; I would kill for a woman your height. Most of the ladies I run into are 5’5″ and under. Don’t down play your God given beauty for anyone. Put on your high heels with that tight black dress, go out and have some fun! If they can’t take it…to hell with them! Come to Atl (or Vegas) and give me a yell!
9:12 pm on August 4th, 2009
Only retards focus that much on the outside, stay strong and you’ll find your companionship one day. Just like I have, people who aren’t sensitive for the inside aren’t worth your time and I won’t say time is money, it is much more valuable than that cause money is shit but yeah I won’t ramble on forever, good luck =)
8:52 am on August 13th, 2009
People are stupid, tall women intimidate them, don’t worry about it. There is something wrong with them, not you, they feel insecure so they feel like they have to say/do something to feel better. I bet you are awesomely beautiful and I am a 5′ 11” guy. If you are ever in Tampa, Florida, give me s shout.
10:31 am on August 21st, 2009
Tall women are sexy, they feel more feminine and mature in a way, besides 6’3 isn’t THAT long, those people are idiots.
12:57 am on August 27th, 2009
Please read the book by Fran Dresscher, she was stunningly beautiful but was treated like crap for her voice.
I love tall red heads with full lips. My first wife was 6’1″ strawberry blonde, unfortunately she was a controller. I am Irish and cannot be controlled. Anyway you sound perfect to me. If you were to ever find me I would treat you like a queen, (as long as you do not treat me like a five-year old).
9:15 pm on August 31st, 2009
There’s nothing wrong with being tall!
It’s just who you are!
Plus, it can have it’s advantages, like being able to reach stuff higher up than some other people.
Maybe this isn’t the most sympathetic comment, but you really shouldn’t let them get to you. If they are ignorant enough to outright hurt your feelings about something so miniscule, then they really don’t deserve your time anyhow!
Take care!
Love yourself!
5:40 pm on September 8th, 2009
I’m a 5’10” guy and I looove tall women.
7:27 pm on September 8th, 2009
If you have a Facebook page, there’s a support group for tall women called. “Tall Girls Do It Better” Don’t let people still your joy. Here’s the link. I hope it helps. Stay encouraged! http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/group.php?gid=2215013895&ref=ts
9:08 pm on September 8th, 2009
People are just jealous at how beautiful you are because they are too short. I am an Asian and I am a bit over 6 foot tall, which is taller than average Asian and actually got comments from people like Asian aren’t suppose to be tall.
I understand our situation is bit different but it just goes to show you how people are ignorant. I love girls taller than me which is hard to come by. Let me know if are into shorter man. LOL!
9:09 pm on September 8th, 2009
People are just jealous at how beautiful you are because they are too short. I am an Asian and I am a bit over 6 foot tall, which is taller than average Asian and actually got comments from people like Asian aren’t suppose to be tall.
I understand our situation is bit different but it just goes to show you how people are ignorant. I love girls taller than me which is hard to come by. Let me know if are into shorter man. LOL!
9:10 pm on September 8th, 2009
that’s not the nickname I want, darn it.
5:26 pm on September 9th, 2009
You don’t need to try to fit in, why do you try to be normal, try to be special, people will just follow you
3:30 pm on September 10th, 2009
Don’t think of it that way. It’s not that you are tall. They are just short. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, than hang around tall people. Love yourself. GOD made us all different shapes and sizes, but we are all human and equal.
7:11 pm on September 15th, 2009
You fit in my bed
It is a king size
11:13 am on September 18th, 2009
you are who you are dont change that
chill
11:11 am on September 19th, 2009
Uhm I think 145 is way skinny for 6’3″ dayum
3:00 am on September 23rd, 2009
dont care about what others say – i think u sound hawt! what is ur msn? i would love to date u!!!
11:00 am on September 28th, 2009
Hey,
Reading the comments, you should realise that there are a lot people out there who do not fit into the box, and basically experience the same. People do stare when you are different. My ethnic background is black, but I am very fair, with strawberry blonde hair, freckles and hazel brown eyes. People stare all the time, be it Black, white or whatever. It does not bother me, I just ignore it. I am 5ft 2″ and have always wished that I was taller. I think when you are tall you look very elegant. So please do not hide, as they say you should walk tall and be proud.
2:11 pm on September 29th, 2009
Hey girl, I know it’s hard to ignore the things people say, but just remember, you’re beautiful. Fuck them! Really, they just say mean things about other people because they are insecure about themselves. I am a tall woman as well! I understand. Keep your head up.
9:48 am on October 14th, 2009
6.3 isn’t so big for a woman in Serbia.
9:58 pm on October 22nd, 2009
I’m 6’4 260 I know people assume your a basketball player (Hate basketball) Dumb, (Have a 160IQ and very successful). I have found through life that most people are envious of your height, I know your mother told you this but this time it’s true. My wife is 5’8″ kid are 5’11”. Walk tall and know the fact I would love to do you.
9:59 pm on October 22nd, 2009
I’m 6’4 260 I know people assume your a basketball player (Hate basketball) Dumb, (Have a 160IQ and very successful). I have found through life that most people are envious of your height, I know your mother told you this but this time it’s true. My wife is 5’8″ kid are 5’11”. Walk tall and know the fact I would love to do you. thanks
5:24 am on November 11th, 2009
it’s simple. exploit this. become a model.
2:59 am on August 8th, 2010
you fit on my cock