I married my husband ten years ago without really loving him.I was sick at the time and also on food stamps and welfare.He asked me to marry him so I did.Now we don’t have sex and sleep in seperate rooms.I’m thinking of getting a lover to fullfill my needs.
10:23 pm on February 20th, 2007
#1899: good for you, join the legions of untrustworthy cheating women of the world. but just don’t ever expect to find a good man if you can’t be a good woman
11:14 am on February 21st, 2007
#1911: I totally agree with Maddox. Your good husband gave you a good life for 10 years and this is how you repay him. You married for your own selfish reasons, now you had your fill, you just wanna burn bridges and leave. So typical. You dont deserve another man at all.
2:49 am on February 22nd, 2007
#1917: ignore them. Just as men crave sex, it’s normal for a woman to crave sex as well. You should sit your husband down and talk to him, see what you can do to bring passion back into your relationship. I know it’s not as easy as that, but he asked you to marry him for a reason, I’m sure it was more then your pretty face and oral skills. You should see what he wants and needs, and explain what you want and need. Work out a compromise’s!
You both loved eachother at one point in your relationship, why not try to get that old spark back instead of letting it die out for good and start ALL over?
5:20 am on March 9th, 2007
#2384: Yeah! It’s best to talk to him.. even if you don’t talk about sex normally. It’s easier than you think.
6:44 am on March 21st, 2007
#2466: This is #755,well took your advise,set him down to talk and was told that he works his ass off to give me a good life of material things and I should cater to him and if I didn’t like it I know where the door is ! Have anymore advise ? Horny
3:18 pm on April 22nd, 2010
How did you talk to him mmm? Were you gentle? Did you make sure you weren’t doing at a bad time (eg-when he’s stressed?) And more importantly, did you make sure you didn’t place most of the blame on him? (eg-saying the ‘you’ and ‘never’ words a lot, like ‘you never do this’ and ‘you always don’t listen to me’ etc)? Make sure you take it slow, he won’t change overnight! But at the same time remember to tell him you DO appreciate him and all the hard work he’s done, but try to get to the bottom of WHY he doesn’t want sex-too much stress? pressure? even insecurities? (yes, men have them too!) But remember, just don’t be accusatory!