I’m in a commited relationship with a guy.
But the only thing that gets me hot is thinking about other women. When I masterbate the only thing that can make me cum is thinking about a gorgeous blonde eating me out until I scream.
I love guys, they’re sweet and caring, and being wrapped in their arms is the most amazing feeling in the world. But I never did like being having sex with them. I mean no offense to men, but penises never really interested me.
I love girls because they’re soft, beautiful, and just have this glow around them. But they can be caty, mean, and over-emotional. However I still LONG to one day be able to experiment with a girl.
I love relationships with guys, but I think I would enjoy sex with women a whole lot more…
3:09 am on February 22nd, 2007
#1920: Sorry if this is a little late of a reply, and also sorry for the incoherent thought, I just kinda lectured and hope it came out ok.
I think that the men you know are just good guys. However, I do think you are a lesbian at heart. I just beleive that the women you know and have met thus fare are total bitches, to put it in lamen terms. I beleive that you need to find the right girl, but up until then your current boyfriend or guys will do.
As per your sexual problem. Find a girl you like, you enjoy being around, you think is someone you could have sex with and not regret it in the morning. Then… tell your boyfriend how you feel. I can see that you love him from how you spoke of him and other men, but you need to experience that lesbian sex to help you make up your mind. If he’s any sort of a normal guy he’ll love the idea of a 3 way and then… well… go to that girl you like and feel ok with. Bring your boyfriend along for emotional support if you are too shy to say it alone. And ask her, however you can. Basically explain to her that you like her, she’s fun and nice and juts wonderful. And well… you would like to have sex with her.
If that option seems too much. You could always try finding a girl you know is a lesbian and, IF she seems someone you would not regret in the morning, ask her!
It is hard in todays society to be sexually curious about the same sex, but its ok! I promise! ^_^ Your boyfriend sound like a good man and he should understand, you seem like a nice enough girl so you shouldn’t have too much of a problem getting someone to like you of the same sex, even if it’s only as friends. And then, once again, ask.
5:43 pm on February 22nd, 2007
#1938: Many to most women are a little bit BI. you shouldn’t have that much trouble find another woman to experiment with. Many girls do their experimenting when they are younger. I know I did. Leave the boy friend out of it, it will ruin your experance. Find a woman a little older than you and confide in her your feelings and desires. Maybe she will see the opportunity and seduce you.
10:01 pm on October 1st, 2009
After reading this, I don’t really know if I think you are bi-sexual or just down right lesbian. I’m not being mean or anything, I just kind of think that you would like to date women and have guy FRIENDS. Because you are right, guys are sweet and caring and they definately give good hugs 🙂 and some are even good listeners but that really sounds like a good friend for you. And you so really passionate about women. It’s hard for me to think that you’re bi-sexual because you said that penis’s don’t really arouse you or “do anything for you.” So I guess all I really have to say is good luck hun. I’m sure however things turn out for you, you will be happy. P.S. I bet the results to your “wonders” will be interesting ;).