i think im secretly in love with my guy frend. im always telling myself i dont, because he’s not good looking and not cool. he is really not my type.. but were very good friends and he is always there for me. i know he secrelty loves me too. he’s told me several times but we always act like were not totally serious.. i try to find other boys and i’ve had boyfriends. but hes always the one i find myself fantasizing about because i know that he cares abt me more than any other boy ever will. knowing he wants me so badly makes me want him. but we cud never be together. im ashamed and embarassed. i hate that im this vain and superficial. but i am.. i wish i never became so close to him.. now im trying to drift away from him.
3:24 pm on November 3rd, 2007
#3791: tell him you need him to teach you how to give blowjobs and that you need to practice doing it 3 or 4 times a day. i’m sur he’ll help u out! it ALWAYS works for me! ps. make sure u always swallow
1:40 pm on November 13th, 2007
#3846: EWW FRESHMAN FRANNI NASTY UMM WELL IF HE ISNT UR TYPE OR GOOD LOOKING MAYBE U R MISTAKEN HIM WITH ANOTHER GUY U REALLY LIKE?
11:17 am on December 22nd, 2007
#4066: cocksucking ALWAYS works !!!
9:49 am on February 11th, 2009
Why don’t you give the guy friend a chance? What exactly do you have to loose? If your in love with the guy then surely its your own happiness that you have to worry about? Never worry about other people think.
Superficial people are absorbed in themselves and you will be the only one who will get your heart broken time after time and you will have nobody to blame but yourself.
If you don’t make your move now you will regret it for the rest of your life and that is a promise. Why don’t you let the Beast become your Prince Charming?
9:07 am on February 12th, 2009
Give it a go. If you think you’re in love with him, who cares about what you don’t like about him. You’re never going to find someone who meets you every, single standard. Whether its appearance or whatnot. In fact, as you’ve probably found out, it’s easy to find someone who looks the part… But not someone who acts the part. So, just go for it, and be happy.
9:59 pm on February 13th, 2009
I agree. I think you should give him a chance. Not everyone has the opportunity to find true love, so you should not let this opportunity pass. There is no perfect person, only someone who is perfect for you, and he just may be it.
7:49 pm on February 14th, 2009
i got sort of the same situation going on… look… ive done my best to get away from this guy but years later circumstances brought him back in my life… me and him weren’t meant to be married… just to be friends and lovers… its the kind of forever ive accepted… i love my future husband… but its a different kind of luv i have 4 this guy… i dont try to define it… its not superficial to have standards… ask ureself this 1 thing……. “If people did find out u were happy 2gether would u be able 2 live with ureself? And if u guys didnt work out maybe he’s just meant 2 be in ure life… hopefully u sleep with him b4 u break up.” As for Freshman Franni… my guess is ure having problems keeping a guy if u give him what he wants right away… give it at least 3 months before u suck….. fuck weneva u want 2. Hope this helps =]
5:23 am on March 2nd, 2009
If these are reasons why you won’t give him a try, then you should do him a favor and tell him this. Most guys would hate to be the “nice guy” to their object of affections. Trust me, he prefers you think he is everything you want. You would both most likely be miserable with that attitude you have. Get over it, or get over him.
12:19 am on March 5th, 2009
when it comes to liking one of your close guy friends, its a tough desicion to weather your afraid it might ruin your friendship or not .. but i say give it a shot. because theres more of a good chance he’ll understand how you feel if you guys ever break up and you’ll be able to repair your friendship. if he treats you right as a friend, than he will most likley treat you right 10x better than he does. so i say go for it :] and don’t ever say ‘never’ because you CAN be together. and don’t care what anyone else thinks because its you who you have to worry about because in the end your only going to have youself .. so make the best choices you possibly can that makes you happy and not what makes OTHER people happy ! =)
2:17 pm on March 5th, 2009
u sound stupid let me guess u are black i hope who ever u find that he will beat the living shit out of u like chris did rihinna i feel sorry for your momma for having your dumb ass
6:47 am on March 12th, 2009
uhmm.. no one takes you seriously maybe because you’re ugly- and it’s only your ugly friend who’s willing to be your partner- lol no choice.
4:41 pm on March 12th, 2009
what the fuck! don’t be so stuck up its not nice! he’s a decent guy thats hard to find these days ! help him look how you want him to look if he likes you he will !
9:43 pm on March 20th, 2009
you obviously take yourself too seriously and i would bet that it is reflected in your many bad relationships. looks fade and that applies to you too.
it sounds like this guy would spend his life with your best interests at heart. men like that are hard to find. when you get a little older and find that less “cool” and “hot” guys are interested in you and the men that are will pale in comparison to anyone you have ever known. good or bad. i only know this by experience. when i was 27 working in clubs in nyc i was the hottest thing around. im 31 and still good looking but it’s amazing how men lose interest. plus, women don’t age well and men can always get girls half their age. keep that in mind and don’t pass a good thing up. 🙂
4:18 am on May 21st, 2009
People Like You Should Be Locked In The Dark. Why Are You Letting Him Be Close To You When You Know He Likes You And Not Want Him Back? You’re Torturing Him!
p.s. In Reference To The Comment Above I Imagined Jesus On A Purple Pogo Stick And Cannot Stop Laughing
4:07 pm on June 7th, 2009
“what people will think about”: because he’s not good looking and not cool. he is really not my type..
“your own feeling” : but hes always the one i find myself fantasizing about because i know that he cares abt me more than any other boy ever will.
there are two parts in you, dear “disgusted with “myself””, the one who is afraid of “what people will think about” and the other who seems to clearly see where’s your happiness would be.
just hear at your own feeling and people oaround will be convinced. don’t worry, if they love you, they’ll love you when you’ll be happy ! and loved !
but I forget a step. Make your decision and declare your flame or not… You’ll see what he’ll think about that… the true love is always made by the two, people concerned… Not the other, and certainly not us, or your friends…
good luck
and be happy, what ever you choice is.
6:33 pm on September 10th, 2009
watch the movie “Dirty Love”.