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I am married but I still find myself thinking about other women sexually. I even have a certain female friend who often teases me about sleeping with her. I can’t help but think about what it would be like. Now, I am not a cheater nor have I ever been, but I worry that I will not be able to control myself one of these days. I am not sure what to do.
1:10 pm on December 13th, 2008
Think about it like this; is it worth losing your marriage over?
8:24 pm on December 29th, 2008
It ain’t worth it man, tell your lady friend to quit it or you may have to quit your friendship.
2:42 pm on January 6th, 2009
Tell your husband as I’m sure he would like to have a threesome some day or at the least watch you play with another woman. But seriously, talk to your husband about it and try to get at the root about where these feelings came from and see how it goes from there.
5:06 am on January 9th, 2009
Whether it be just this women, or many more, you are not ready for a marriage. I think if it is a serious issue, you definitely need a divorce. You should think about how much you love your wife, which inevitably it’s not as much as you used to think.
9:31 am on January 16th, 2009
Masturbate more. It helps!
4:19 pm on January 17th, 2009
Divorce is not the solution! Seriously, if you are a sexual being, then you are gonna think about sex. The problem is when you think and meditate about it so much that your very integrity is under assault. It’s time to bring order to your thoughts. Having thoughts is not wrong, but meditating on bad thoughts can lead to bad consequences. There have been times that I have had to struggle with my thoughts and I have had to remind myself why I married my wife, how much I love her, and how much it would hurt her if I cheated on her. You have to guard your heart and guard your mind as well. Take control of every thought and take control of every situation. Do not put yourself in a situation where there is a chance you can cheat on your wife. Or husband. (are you male or female? straight or gay marriage?) You are a human being. You are just as capable of saying no as you are of saying yes. One answer may be harder than the other, but you can do it. You can control yourself.
8:54 pm on January 18th, 2009
DO IT!!!!!! CHEATING ROCKS< IT IS THE ONLY WAY TO HAVE AWSOME SEX WHEN U R MARRIED
12:34 pm on January 26th, 2009
DON’T LISTEN TO THE LAST ONE BEFORE ME PLEASE…HE PROBABLY ISN’T MARRIED:( LOOK. THINK ABOUT WHY YOU MARRIED YOUR WIFE…CAUSE YOU LOVE HER RIGHT? AND EVEN IF YOU DIDN’T YOU CHOSE TO MARRY HER, YOU PROMISED TO BE WITH HER ALWAYS RIGHT? THEN SIMPLY KEEP YOUR PROMISE…CAUSE YOU WOULDN’T WANT YOUR WIFE TO HURT YOU ?
THEN DON’T HURT HER, CAUSE REMEMBER THIS…WOMAN ALWAYS KNOW…THEY MIGHT PLAY THE FOOL, BUT THEY KNOW ALWAYS WHAT’S GOING ON WITH THEIR HUSBANDS…TRUST ME.