I sometimes played around with my best friend about being gay and acting stupid.
The trouble is, we think we’re turning a slightly bit gay. It just comes natural to us and we’re a little worried we might start kissing and getting comfortable with touching each other if we continue our little games.
I personally think we need to stop but we always go back to the same routine and I know for a fact that we both picture it in our heads. I even pictured us naked and in each others arms, calling each other a whore and bitch.
2:20 am on November 10th, 2008
It’s all right, no need to freak out, just you are the one to decide to keep it a game or see if it’s something else :3
7:44 pm on November 12th, 2008
THIS NEEDS TO STOP LOL
4:04 am on November 18th, 2008
It’s actually a fairly common inclination among women to have ambiguity about sexuality. I think it has something do with Freud. It is probably an evolutionary side effect: the optimal strategy for the proliferation of women’s genes can vary from competition to cooperation since they can theoretically share mates whereas with males the sexual identity is polarized into extremes because mating for males is a zero sum game.
10:53 am on November 21st, 2008
don´t repress yourselfe
2:24 pm on December 10th, 2008
meh – I did it when i was like 13 or 14 and it is more common than you think although most will not admit it. I even hooked up drunk once in college. just have fun while your young. I never once thought it was going to turn me gay and most phsychologists will tell u that homophobes are phobic because they are scared of the same feelings. Even if your str8 you can still be attracted to the same sex. and of course you only live once! .. travel europe a while – they dont have the bible belt stigma we have here.
5:54 am on December 22nd, 2008
Go ahead don’t stop
6:59 am on February 4th, 2009
Turning gay? I think you either are, or you’re not. It can be complicated, but the truth of the matter is, you’re either attracted to him or you’re not. the thing of it is, if you’re not attracted to a bunch of other guys, then maybe he’s just your guy crush. Also, you might take into consideration that maybe he’s gay. I mean I don’t know if you’ve had any heart to hearts, but most people in the closet can certainly go along with the notion that they’re not gay, especially if their friend doesn’t think he’s gay either.
11:50 am on October 31st, 2009
Your going to cause yourself more harm trying to talk yourself into a state of denial than you would talking yourself into accepting it as a valid fantasy/possibility.
5:29 pm on April 23rd, 2010
What games do you play
5:26 pm on April 24th, 2010
You’re either gay or you aren’t. You can fool around with anyone, and that alone doesn’t make you gay. Who you love is what makes you straight or gay. Do you love the same sex? Or just like getting off.