Confession Point

When you must confess!

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I am 24 and he is 26. We’ve always had a great sex life. One thing he always insisted on during sex is me talking very dirty to him very loud. The filthier the better, telling him what to do and he also likes me to call him and myself dirty names. Well, now I think I know why. He kept a recorder under the bed and taped everything! Now I’m no prude, but is this normal? Should I be mad he didn’t tell me? He says if I knew, it wouldn’t be natural. I just don’t know what to think.