I have been in the military for 7 years. Well, a couple of years ago I befriended my supervisor. She is married with two children and her husband happens to also be in the military. Shortly after, she decided to get out of the military but me and her remained really close friends. We used to go out all the time…..out to eat, clubbin, and I used to go over to her house all the time. I would play with her children and me and her husband would make polite small talk when I happened to see him in passing. Around this time, I received orders to Korea and about a month or so later I found out that my friends husband received orders to Korea as well, only to a different base than me (2 hours away). My friend decided not to go to Korea with him due to their children but would be following him to his next base after Korea.
So, one day after I was settled at my new base, me and a friend decided to take a trip up to the other base. While shopping, I happened to run into my old Supevisor’s husband. We made the same small talk, only this time exchanged IM addresses. After I traveled back to my base, I added him to my IM.
One night about 3 months later, on another trip up yonder, I was at a club with a few friends. And there he was. Only this time things were much different. He was very flirtatious, a little touchy. He asked where I was staying and I told him. We left the club, I got my things from the hotel I was staying at, and we headed to his place. After arriving there, we listened to some music, was drinking on some cognac, and talking. Somewhere in between talking and listening to music, he started pulling me closer to him and telling me that he had always wanted me since the day he met me. He started kissing on my neck and my ears and then before I knew what was happening I was being led to his king sized bed.
The next morning, when my brain was clear from it’s drunken haze I thought about what I had just did. I thought it was just one of those drunk-night flings. But he woke up and we started going at it again.
I have taken a few other trips to his base to visit him. And while I always questioned myself as to what I was doing, I simply could not help myself.
Since both of us left Korea, he has IM’ed me out of the blue…telling me that he missed feeling my ass and tits and how he still thought about all the things we did to each other. All the while, I still keep in touch with his wife….his wife who wants to come visit me in Guam where I now am.
5:31 pm on January 24th, 2009
its one thing when a man is miles away from his wife and if horny but u call your self a friend no i call u the hoe on the side
10:15 am on January 26th, 2009
aw man this shit is perfect, tell her to bring her husband so that he can fuck you both and he can spew hot Guam all over your faces.
5:35 pm on January 26th, 2009
Listen, everyone sins, this shouldn’t be kept so secret cause everyone feels so terrible all the time and singled out. Sexual feelings are natural, not only that but more comfortable usually when it’s with someone we already know or have some type of comfort level with. It’s uncomfortable to be in a strange place, it was comfortable to see someone you knew from back home, you were sexually deprived which is also a very natural feeling. #1 His sin is not your problem you were both in the wrong but your wrong isn’t affiliated with his, so seperate it. You like your girlfriend genuinly I’m sure the way you enjoyed him genuinly too, both are validated feelings. Things have a way of coming out the best way on their own in the end. With your guilt and confession you have repented your sin, so move on keep the relationship with your friend whom you liked from the very begining understand the mistake you made, understand the consequence will come out naturally and you don’t have to bring it forth pre-maturely, accept it when it comes because you understand you fault and that way it will be a lot easier to deal with emotionally even if it means loosing your friend, maybe she really didn’t need you, or you her anyways. Maybe you needed to cheat with her husband for her to ultimately find out and leave him to be happier with someone else. You can’t understand what plan this life has just learn to be honest with what makes you feel right and wrong, ride with those emotions of good or honest feelings and I’m sure the road it will lead to will be the right road. Gos Bless 🙂
4:02 pm on January 28th, 2009
Here’s the acid test of morality: Put it on YOUR foot–how does it feel? IE: If your friend was sleeping with your husband-how would you feel about her? I don’t think that you will be doing anyone any favors by “comming clean” -and destroying your friends lives (not to mention their kids) Tell him that you no longer want to see him-and don’t. Delete his IM addy. Stay friends with your gf-but only see HER-as distinct from her AND him. Get online and find yourself someone single. Buy “The Secret” -when oyu change what you are telling yourself, and what you are doing-you will fell better. Forgive yourself.
3:25 am on April 6th, 2009
do what you wuld lyk to b done tu you
3:26 am on April 6th, 2009
du wat youe wuld lyk tu be done tu you
12:09 pm on October 30th, 2009
now’s the chance to fuck her, lift up her im address.you know that’s why she wants to come visit. U’r lucky slutty cunt. With your hot ass.