Comments on: I am in love with my best friend who is also a guy

By: Raul

Raul — Wed, 05 May 2010 12:59:10 +0000

Long time since teh post , but I feel you were in love wtih him ..
Sometimes its just something you cant point out.. You want him more than you need a girl..

He loves you too.. He cant stand being apart from you….

But you just dont seem to understand. He is giving you so many hints… He is upset he is angry that you dont reciprocate.. It makes him crazy..

And you just dont have the guts to ask!

If you guys are still living together.. ask him!

Perhaps your love will blossom. And stop the OH IM NOT GAY thing. You never know who you fall in love with.

By: bob

bob — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 18:10:00 +0000

#5003: This happened to me and my best friend. Unfortunately he was truly in love, and I was just into the physical sex. It was incredible sex because he would do anything to please me. I just couldnt get into the love thing, and we broke up

By: the wrong guy

the wrong guy — Tue, 20 May 2008 05:55:00 +0000

#4697: romantic friendship in this day and age…wow

By: gray carpenter

gray carpenter — Tue, 10 Apr 2007 14:52:00 +0000

#2696: First off…it doesn’t mean you are gay if you are in love with your best friend. At least not technically. There can come a point between two straight men that they love each other intensely and have a need to be together. Best friendships between buddies can be powerful and fulfilling. But do you want to have sex with him? If so…you’re gay and in love with him. Also nothing wrong with it. And if that’s the case…navigate carefully through the rough waters ahead. You could gain a lover for life…or you could lose your best friend. What’s worth more to you? After answering that question, take action…or don’t.

By: secret lecturer

secret lecturer — Sun, 03 Sep 2006 00:49:00 +0000

#1258: Jesus, fuck all of these christian, ill judge you for ebgin gay types. You guys are patheti, you believ in a made up religion, adn then fuking use it to look down on other people?

Go for it btw. dunno why..

By: automatic booger

automatic booger — Mon, 28 Aug 2006 18:42:00 +0000

#1249: good for you 1195. couldn’t have said it better myself. as for the rest, they’re all fucking homophobes.

By: tall lawyer

tall lawyer — Mon, 24 Jul 2006 06:25:00 +0000

#1195: It seems some people are under the deluded impression that there is something "wrong" with homosexuality. Ignore them; homosexuality is completely natural (there have been gay animals, even) and it’s not a big deal. (And to the people who are saying "Homosexuality goes against God, it was never meant to happen" – since your God is omnipotent, if it was never meant to happen, then don’t you think it would never have happened?) In the long run, does it really matter if you’re gay, straight, bi, whatever? No.
About your situation though… personally, I would just let whatever happens, happen. Don’t worry, just do your thing and live, okay?

By: bad shoplifter

bad shoplifter — Mon, 24 Jul 2006 04:40:00 +0000

#1194: Hey #1178…..go fuck youself………..if you can with that tiny, itty bitty dick of yours!!

By: wrong policeman

wrong policeman — Thu, 13 Jul 2006 04:24:00 +0000

#1189: (#1188) The people that are critical to you for having these feelings are wrong in their thinking. I understand that it must be difficult feeling the way you do and not being able to express it freely. However, the critical people need to remember that it saying in the bible that everyone on this earth with the exception of Jesus is born into sin. It doesn’t say all of our sins will be the same. Each one of us is born with sin and some sin maybe jealousy, greed, murder, sex etc. Others sin maybe homosexuality. That sin is equally forgivable under the blood of Christ as all other sin with the exception of sinning against the Holy Spirit. I will keep you in my prayers.

By: wrong policeman

wrong policeman — Thu, 13 Jul 2006 04:19:00 +0000

#1188: Being homosexual is not natural. I do not hate gay people. I hate the sin. Everyones sin is different and we must try top strive to not live or commit sin. We all will stumble but the great thing about Jeus Christ is that you can go back to him and be forgiven. That does not allow us to keep indulging in sin though. We all must make an effort to follow in the footsteps of God’s son. He was tortured and crucified for us for a reason, we should not take that lightly. There will be consequences for our actions on this earth. Even Christians will be judged in heaven for their rewards by how they served God on earth. Homosexuality is sinful living as is two un married heterosexuals living together or having sex. It’s all sin, God did say in the bible that two men lying together and two woman as well is detestable in the sight of the Lord, however we must remember that sin itself is detestable. Being gay is not and never was in the design of the creation of mankind. You must try to refrain from it, the rewards will be great in the end and you may even discover yourself being blessed in many ways here on earth.

By: cold stepmother

cold stepmother — Wed, 12 Jul 2006 19:28:00 +0000

#1187: I think it is totally possible. That happened to me. The reality of it all is that you do not know where you will find Love. I think you should ask him directly what he meant by his comment. Then you should have an honest and open talk. Good luck.

By: brave teenager

brave teenager — Wed, 12 Jul 2006 15:36:00 +0000

#1185: did anyone bothered themselves read this? hell I didn’t.

By: narrow son

narrow son — Wed, 12 Jul 2006 00:06:00 +0000

#1178: you fucking homo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

By: responsible monkey

responsible monkey — Tue, 11 Jul 2006 16:43:00 +0000

#1176: DON’T BE GAY!!!!!!!!!!BE GAY AND BE FRIENDLESS……UNDERSTAND THAT THIS GUY IS PROBABLY NOT GAY…..THE ODDS OF TWO GROWN MEN COMING OUT OF THE CLOSET TOGETHER AFTER SO LONG…I MEAN THINK ABOUT IT….BESIDES BEING GAY IS JUST NASTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!